Well, Mark is old enough for T-Ball now, and so we’re getting started on that. It’s a little bit stressful for him, because we didn’t really prepare him for it mentally, or physically. We didn’t even get him any books on the subject for us to read to him–which is the standard procedure. We did get him a glove last year at the Sports Shop, and the J6 crew got him some size 12T baseball cleats.
On Monday, we told him we were going to start playing T-ball and we started working on throwing and catching, then on Wednesday we went to our first practice where he practiced some fielding and then some batting.
He was terrified of the batting, so that night we went and bought our own little practice T-Ball set so we could work on those skills. He liked the running to first base, but didn’t know where to find the base all the time and he definitely didn’t want to mess up and run to the wrong base. As soon as we got into the car after the first practice, we told him we had the first game on Saturday and he opened his mouth really wide and let out a big cry. He’d thought that T-ball was over and he wouldn’t have to do it again, then he found out we had a game on Saturday. It was tough for him.
On Saturday, he cried the whole way to the ball field and Holly was not sure that T-ball was what we needed to be doing. I explained that he’s at just the right age to learn T-ball and that later on it’d be too late because his peer group would already know how to catch, throw, and bat by then.
Photo by Steve Vick: CLICK HERE!! then click on T-ball for more of his pictures.
Many of these pictures are great, and I’m going to buy a few of Mark Daniel when I get some time. When these photos were taken, the T-ball teams didn’t have their uniforms yet, plus it was cold, so many of the kids were all bundled up in their fleece. (He’s on the Reds, so they have Red baseball t-shirts, and red hats with C’s on them.)
When he got up to bat the first time, he just held the bat and descended into a puddle of tears, holding the bat and looking at all the fielders watching him. Parents in the crowd, were cheering him on, “Come on Marky, You can do it.” I went out there and picked him up and carried him back to the dug-out.
We had a long talk about stress and doing what you’re supposed to, even when it’s scary. It was a tough talk. I talked about wrestling, and about teaching my first year. Then I told him, I’d go up there and be with him when he bats next time.
So when it was his turn to bat the next time, it looked like he was doing great, but he didn’t want to swing. So I went up to him and asked him how he was doing, and he was just about to cry again. He said, “I don’t know where first base is. Where is it?”
I pointed over to it, and then he was fine. He hit the ball to third base, and made it to third, since they over threw first. They only played two innings, since each kid gets to bat each inning.
When we got out to the car, Mark was all happy because he’d finished T-ball. Bummer. We had to explain to him that this was just the first of six weeks of Saturday morning games.
When he hear that, his eyes teared up, he opened his mouth for a the mother of all breaths. Holly and I held our ears. Then he let loose again.
Sometimes, that’s how it goes, I suppose.
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